Dealing with Anger
Everyone gets angry, but figuring out what to do and how to manage those angry feelings can sometimes be a little bit difficult, especially for younger kids.
Understanding our anger warning signs is a great first step in better managing the symptoms of anger such as yelling, throwing things, hitting, etc.
Warning signs are all of the things that we see and feel within our bodies that alert us that we are starting to get a little upset. Anger sometimes works on a scale and it can be beneficial to recognize our low, medium, and high warning signs.
Some examples might be:
- Low- clench teeth, ball up fists, face gets hot
- Medium- stomp feet, sighing or huffing, shaking
- High- yelling, throwing items, hitting or kicking
A good activity to help younger kids recognize their anger warning signs is “Anger in the Mirror.” Next time your child is getting a little bit worked up, have them go to the mirror and look at themselves and point out all of the ways they can tell they are angry from their reflection.
Further, ask them questions about how they feel inside. Does their belly hurt? Do their ears feel hot? Is their head feeling funny? All of this can help you as the parent better recognize and intervene when your child is at a low anger level, and possibly prevent the anger from getting too high.
Another important reminder: Try your best to stay calm when your child gets upset, and understand that your child is experiencing a big emotion that they need your help in navigating.
Check out this link from ADDitudeMag for more tips.
Author: Kaytlin Hume.


