PANK Blog: Resiliency
Resiliency can be defined as the ability to bounce back after a difficult encounter or situation. Resiliency can also be viewed as "toughness." We want our children to be resilient, especially when it comes to the many hardships that adolescents face nowadays.
Below are some characteristics that resilient people possess:
-Resilient people are flexible. In order to be resilient, we must be willing to adapt to our surroundings and understand that life sometimes does not go as planned, but that is okay.
-Resilient people are teachable. Being willing to learn new skills to cope with changing or unexpected situations is another key factor in building resilience.
-Resilient people are resourceful and seek solutions. Instead of complaining that things are hard or that we don't have what we need to get things done, resiliency is the ability to use what we do have to change our situation and to find solutions to our problems.
-Resilient people set realistic expectations. This is especially important. Unrealistic expectations can lead to major disappointment and can discourage us from continuing toward our goals. Setting realistic and attainable expectations can help us to be more prepared for what is to come.
Ways to improve overall resilience:
-Push past your comfort zone. Do something that worries you, and work on accepting anxious feelings and allowing yourself to be okay with those feelings.
-Set small scale realistic goals that are helping to move you toward bigger goals. This is helpful because we feel accomplished when we meet small goals, and that encourages us to continue toward the bigger goals.
-Change your mindset. Think of things that are scary or worrisome as challenging. Change the language you use with yourself to describe your thoughts and feelings to be more encouraging and productive.
-Utilize coping skills such as drawing, cooking, listening to music, journaling, spending time with your support system.
-Practice self-care. Do something that you enjoy, take care of your physical and personal health and hygiene, practice good sleeping and eating habits.

